Making Emotions Make Sense. Episode 15 DiscussionEmotional Baggage & Unfinished Feelings As children we need our Mother’s attention and if we don’t get it, we may desire it for the rest of our lives. You don’t need to carry with you for the rest of your life. A loss may be very devastating and needs to be grieved. Have you heard the term back story or origin story. Do not minimize for yourself or a friend. Louise did not want to talk about what happened in Texas and spoiler alert, it didn’t end well for her. Funny scene how old feelings may affect our current lives.