Making Emotions Make Sense. Episode 16 DiscussionDepression caused by Unfinished Feelings Did you notice the books on his desk. He wants to intellectually understand why she died. Get’s angry with time, death and love. Starts to name what he has lost. Left at the alter by the man she loved. She is not sure what to feel. She had a great group of friends who could listen. Struggling with his feelings in the Real World.